This morning, the dogs woke me at butt o’clock, A.K.A. 4:20AM. I bundled up and took them for a long, slippery walk. It was crisp, dark and slightly foggy. I was moved to take photos because it was just so beautiful outside. I was grateful to my pups who forced me to be out and about in the quiet, without any cars or cares. After I snapped the photos, I put my camera away so I could be fully present for my walk. I tried to extend my freedom from thought or worry about anything in my day to day life. My brain, body and spirit are continuously seeking a breather no matter how brief it may be. Continue reading “Single Working Mom Seeks Understudy”
*DISCLAIMER: I may be wrong.
*OTHER DISCLAIMER: I may not be wrong.
*OTHER OTHER DISCLAIMER: It doesn’t matter.
*OTHER OTHER OTHER DISCLAIMER, or, DISCLAIMER CUBED: Great leaders only ace the leadership test if they do NOT seek credit for acing the test.
Without appearing old and crusty, I’ve been around. I’ve learned a thing or two about a thing or two. Perhaps more than most people, I have walked through a diverse and wonderfully colorful career path.
I have adored some career choices more than others. To date, (and no, I don’t enjoy dating, but that’s a different article), I am wholly in love with and immersed in learning from the good, the bad and the ugly of pretty much everything.
For whatever reason, and I will mention some of what I believe are the reasons, I have often evolved into a leader, even though this is something I have fought against for much of my life.
While I have sometimes felt pressured to accept a leadership position or be fired, I think I am starting to understand what I believe are extremely valuable (essential) qualities of very strong leadership. Here goes: (Also, don’t forget my disclaimers, okay?)
- A great leader does not need to take credit or receive much in the way of applause
- A great leader never considers a brilliant idea stolen, and nor does she/he become offended, when a colleague claims idea as her/his own, but rather views it as a positive that collaborative systems are working well
- A great leader meets people exactly where they are and implements actions based on realistic factors (I struggle with the second part of this one!)
- A great leader, while always seeing a holistic view, creates and develops accessible systems in order to raise up all individuals and the organization as a whole
- A great leader takes calculated risks and accepts the heat when they don’t fly
- A great leader is appropriately transparent and accountable, internally and externally
- A great leader elevates others and recognizes that this estimable action improves the leader as a leader!
- A great leader knows that the very best ideas and systems are successful only through collaboration
- A great leader has a healthy sense of boundaries, but NEVER buys into hierarchy
- A great leader celebrates victories but does not claim victory as her/his own
- A great leader takes it on the chin for the greater good of the team and proceeds to shift the group, into a positive direction
- A great leader is either organized, or wise enough to locate all aspects of organization in order to run things well
- A great leader has vision, compassion and clarity
- A great leader needs help and asks for it
- A great leader plays to strengths and helps stretch weaker muscles, in her/himself and others
- A great leader values and fosters professional development for all
- A great leader almost always finds the calm within a storm
- A great leader is realistic and accepting about her/his own weaknesses and is selectively and strategically transparent about them, in order to elevate the collective group and organization
- A great leader celebrates being a part of something far bigger than her/himself. (A great leader is right-sized)
- A great leader is strategic and tactical or, is surrounded by others who are strategic and tactical (which is an excellent strategy.)
- A great leader implements and follows an accessible, realistic organizational strategic plan
- A great leader is hungry to learn from others and invariably, does
- A great leader is responsible and enthusiastic about mentoring other great leaders
- A great leader is many times, not located at the top of an organizational chart, and doesn’t really care
Whoa. There’s more, but I’m exhausted.
I have observed outstanding leadership on a few occasions, but not as often as I’d like to. Egos and/or arduous work to hide a leader’s weaknesses, lack of systems creation and/or implementation gets in the way. Many times, leaders who are labeled as leaders, can feel burdened by or anxious about their title, so they define and focus on what they think a leader is supposed to look like, rather than keeping her/his eyes on what’s really essential.
I am interested in learning from great leaders and also from the not so great leaders. In fact, I really love and embrace both facets of professional growth as they are invaluable lessons on what to do and what not to do.
Maybe that’s why I might be a leader at my core, as much as I prefer standing behind other leaders.
Either way, I’m being led to the next right move.